The Vanderpump Rules star is single, unbothered, and not settling for anything less than perfection
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Listen, if anyone knows how to set boundaries in 2025, it’s LALA KENT. The Vanderpump Rules alum just dropped the most hilarious (and genius) dating rule we’ve heard, and moms everywhere are taking notes.
In a recent interview that had the internet buzzing, Lala shared her 7 a.m. dating rule, the hard stop that separates casual flings from real potential.
“If you’re not worth meeting my kids, you’re not worth breakfast,”
she laughed, sipping her coffee while Sosa tugged at her hair.
This rule isn’t rigid; it’s about love and protection. Those first hours of the day are sacred, chaotic, tender, and full of moments that define a child’s world. One Instagram follower wrote:
“I had to pause and nod — my mornings with my kids are sacred too. Lala gets it!”
Savage? Maybe. Relatable? Absolutely. Behind the humor is a mother fiercely prioritizing her children’s stability while keeping her heart open.
The “Never Say Never” Era
Since her dramatic exit from engagement with Randall Emmett, Lala has been through the wringer. She’s gone from chasing LA dreams to raising two daughters on her own terms. Her second daughter, Sosa, was conceived via sperm donor, a choice fans applauded for her independence.
Lala told Entertainment Tonight that while she likes to say “never” about dating, she knows better now.
Reality TV therapist Dr. Shannon Curry explains:
“Acknowledging past patterns of ignoring red flags is powerful work. That level of self-awareness, especially after public heartbreak, is incredibly brave.”
What She’s Looking For
Lala isn’t just being picky, she’s soul-searching. She knows someone’s right when everything they say feels right, not gut-wrenching.
Yes, he better be hot. But more importantly, he must make her feel happy, safe, and secure — the bare minimum every woman deserves.
Relationship expert Rachel Dealto adds:
“The 7 a.m. rule isn’t about being cold — it’s about prioritizing her children’s emotional stability. That’s exemplary parenting.”
A single mom from Utah commented:
“My kids don’t need to meet every guy I grab drinks with. They need stability, and LALA gets that.”
The Tom Schwartz Situation
Rumors swirled about Lala and fellow VPR alum Tom Schwartz, though both have shut them down. In a recent Amazon Live, Lala said she doesn’t see it happening with Schwartz, calling him a dear friend.
These two love trolling the internet. Lala posted a photo with the caption: “Soft launch. Like, so soft it’s not even real type soft,” while Tom called her his “imaginary internet GF.”
A production insider explained:
“Lala and Schwartz have a genuine friendship formed after their breakups. Sometimes a platonic soulmate is exactly what you need.”
Even Scheana Shay admitted she’d only hear about it online if anything happened.
Why It Matters
Lala is a single mom, podcast host, and fiercely independent. Despite public heartbreak and scandals, she keeps her humor, her standards, and her children protected.
Divorce attorney JENNIFER MEYER notes:
“Setting firm boundaries while remaining open is textbook healthy post-divorce behavior. LALA models strength, independence, and belief in love for her daughters.”
The Bottom Line
Lala Kent isn’t closing the door on love; she’s making sure anyone who walks through it is worth it.
In a world where people settle and ignore red flags, Lala‘s approach feels refreshing. She’s living proof you can want love without needing it and be vulnerable while keeping boundaries.
And yes, she can tell someone to leave before her kid wakes up. If they’re not ready to be permanent, they don’t get temporary access.
The ball is in the court of anyone wanting to stick around past 7 a.m. Until then, Lala is thriving on her own.
